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"I am a 70 year-old banker. You are working for the wrong thing"

I am a retired banker in my 70s. I haven't worked for a while, but I know very well what the industry is like, and I now have time to reflect upon it. 

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The problems in banking are the same as the problems in society at large, only magnified.

When you work in investment banking, you have very little time for anything else. Every day is a 12-hour day, at least, and if you're lucky you will have two half days at the weekend. If you're ill, you're expected to work. If your family is ill, you're expected to work. There are vacations, but they may be interrupted.

Why put yourself through this? It's called the hedonic treadmill.

I was born in the 1950s. At that time, life was a lot simpler than it is now. Far less was available, and we had fewer things we considered necessities. During my lifetime, a lot of former luxuries have become considered necessities.

As we work to afford these luxuries-necessities, work is consuming everything. Competition has become increasingly cut-throat, and employers are desperately squeezing employees in search of returns. In banking especially teams are often deliberately understaffed to maintain margins and late hours and facetime in the office are common.

Humans everywhere are suffering and bankers are suffering because they're at the pinnacle of this system. People can't keep up and are constantly dropping out and leaving the industry.

There are other ways of doing it. If you're an individual, don't keep turning necessities into luxuries. Accept little, work less. Read more and stop your brain atrophying. If you're an employer, show your employees some respect and treat them as humans instead of human resources. 

Life is not about false necessities. Nor is it about squeezing people until they break.

You will understand that when you're my age. But you could learn it sooner.

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  • TS
    TS100
    29 July 2025
    When you are finishing university, all you need is a job. UK is a financial services driven economy. May grads will end up in investment banking. I see lot of negativity and judgement on the hours. Yes hours are bad! But one can’t just quit and leave ! It’s not that easy. It’s not easy to change careers. Same goes for doctors, lawyers, policemen. You don’t just change industry. Even a lateral within banking is hard as every job has specific skill set, career ladder and lot of money is spent on training. The only choice is to like it or feel depressed. Most people chose positivity and learn to embrace the good things about their career - team work, intellectual concepts, technical advisory, corporate finance skills etc etc. Like any other career people want to grow too, that comes with more sacrifices. The ones who sustain are usually the ones who see positives > negatives and learn to embrace their career and profression. Others quit, and those who want to quit but can’t, are a small minority but do exist - it’s not always easy. But hopefully newer generations drives better practices. Everyone would love that. Helped by technology too.
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    PoorGuy
    28 July 2025
    Yeah, it's good advice but the other side is it ain't easy being poor either! Damned if you do, damned if you don't.
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    Dwight4k
    27 July 2025
    Easy to say when he already has money and doesn't have to worry about it. I say, work smart, learn as much as you can. And when you're done with a certain company you have the knowledge and the resources to do what you want. And om top of that you also have the reputation of being a hard worker and they you're dependable.
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    mets8669
    26 July 2025
    Thank you for writing this. I’m 27 and avoided banking deliberately due to this reality. I’ve seen my friends, including past roommates, suffer 24/7 with no end in sight. I’m trying to navigate a career threading the needle - being able to make enough to support a family (in a community where everyone goes to private school, has expensive weddings, etc) while maintaining work life balance that will allow me to be a present husband and eventual father.
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    GeneL
    26 July 2025
    Thank you for writing this. I hope at least a few will listen, because you are wise. I also did a career in Finance; but on my own terms.

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